Food For Thought

After I saw the movie Bachna Ae Haseeno, two questions popped into my mind:

(((1))) Why are men always so afraid of commitment, whereas women like to commit?

(((2))) If we've broken anyone's heart (read as split in a nasty fashion, dumped someone, broke up impromptu, cheated, etc) - and the wrong was (primarily) from our end - Should we apoligize to them?

For Point # 1, I have no clue. Being a man myself who has a morbid fear of commitment - however small or big it be - I don't think I am the right person to comment on this. But, what the heck, I'll take a shot in the dark.
What I believe to be the reasons for my fear of commitment are - The fear of allowing someone else to decide things for you. The fear of having to live up to someone elses expectations. The fear of monotony. The fear of having to do things to keep someone else - other than you - happy and smiling. The fear of waking up to the same person forever. The fear of having to share even when you dont want to. The fear of rules. The fear of 'One'gina!

In Short - The Fear Of Loosing Control Over My Life!!!

I'm sure many guys think like me. For those who don't - Wish You A Happy Married Life!!!
;)


As for Point # 2, the more I think about it - the more I think you should apologize if you've broken anyone's heart in the past. Ofcourse you had your reasons why you did it. Maybe you were plain scared. Maybe you were angry. Maybe you were taking revenge. But whatever it be - It doesn't hurt to say Sorry does it?

For now, I'm gonna go back and ponder if I've hurt anyone till date. If yes - I'm gonna go ahead and apologize to them right away ...


Till then - Adieus Amigos!